Just got my BFP!but.............?

You don't have to tell them yet. I was almost 5 months when I told the owner of my company that I was pregnant. Don't let what they say bother you. If this baby was wanted and it sounds like it was then congrats and don't worry about anyone else. I thought the owner of my company was going to be judgmental but he has turned out to be great with the news. Again congrats and good luck.